Thread: hello, do you think you can spear a couple of minutes with this message

i really really appriciate your honesty about this matter. You are a good friend of mine. I cant belive i was so stupid searching for love in the wrong places.
Guess what she just send another email i will send it to you

amor gracias por tu felicitaciones se que es verdad lo que em dices eres una persona muy clara amor
te entiendo muy bien yo no quiero pasar una verguenza antes mis amigas amor yo lesdije que dejare la fiesta para mañana me entiendes ? por que no queiro paasr verguenza amor esta es la ultia ves que te pido dinero por favor trata de enviarme hoy 200 dolares para poder aser la fites compral todos lo que se va a nesesitar en la fites pienso aser una parrillada y comprar algunas cosas te aseguro que te enviare las fotos que me tome mañana amor peor esta es la ultima ve sque te pido solo es que no quiero pasar verguenza y te pido escuza por antes no preguntarte me entiedes mi amor
por favor enviame los 200 te aseguro que no te pedire mas
amor a otra cosa mis padres te envian saludos por favor mandame fotos nuevas tu yas para yo enseñarselas a ellos
que estas asiendo hoy ?
just like you said she sent another email but i dont understand to much can you help

Hi Sheldon!

Well, in this email she says she apologizes for asking for money again. She says this is the last time she is going to do this and that as she doesn't want to be embarrased in front of her friends she is going to put off the party for tomorrow, so if you could just send her the 200 dolars. She also says she should have asked you first about this matter, and that she won't ask for money again.
She adds she's going to send you some photos tomorrow and that her folks say hi. She also asks for some photos from you so she can show them to her folks.
She asks what you are doing today.

Well, honestly I know this is not my business at all, but you should be careful with this woman. I´m sorry, but she is obviously interested in your money. Try not to send her money this time and see what happens next.
Please, let us know, we are a bit concerned about this situation.

Saludiños,

Bel

I hate to be a gossip, but did you write to her? Her brazen nature is really quite striking.

you guys are so right. i didnt send her any money for her Birthday party and she talked about something about her pictures she was going to send me. i havent talk to her yet but i am sure she is mad but what could i do about it.

For starters, resolve to try not to cry just a whole lot over people who are using you. We all fall in that trap once in a while, but we can try not to do it too much.

It's been suggested not to offer advice in a forum unless it is requested, so I didn't say anything when I translated one of yours.

Hi,

As a hispanic woman, I found this offensive for someone to be asking you money from far away. In the hispanic cultures you don't ask for money to a man unless he is your husband or already living together and there is a necessity in the home, like the wife asking for money to buy food or diapers for the child. A woman that is with her boyfriend not living in her home, doesn't ask a boyfriend for money to do her own party. When people from other countries ask money to be sent from a faraway love, that is a tactic to use people. She might even have already her love over there asking her to ask you for money. Even family members and friends might tell her, "ask him for money"... Be careful, and I didn't mean to intrude or offend, but it cringed me when I saw this. I also saw it in other threads here.

that is very serious do you think she has a boyfriend in DR that tells her to send money. wow She told me i am her only boyfriend. can you email me

Is her name Yinet. She has a boyfriend!

her name is Yissel Abreu Martinez. do you know her

I am sorry to tell you she is scamming a lot of men under different names and pictures on different websites. The message is the same and her style of writing. It's always the same topic and asking for money! Try calling her home phone number. That's if she gave it to you.