My husbands ex girlfriend keeps appearing in our lives and all it does it cause conflict between my husband and I..here is my response (and hopefully my last) to her and maybe she'll go away. I need this translated from English to Spanish, if anyone can help! thanks!!
Thanks for writing me back without much criticism, I was really expecting the worst. The things Martin has told me about everything that has happened between the both of you has frustrated me in the past and you have to understand why I would be frustrated. I know you wanted to be with him repeatedly throughout our relationship and this is the reason why I don't want the both of you communicating. It may or may not be anything but a friendship but you both have a history that its hard for me to overlook and accept you two to communicate. The time you are talking about when Martin called you and said he wanted to come back to Mexico was when we were separated, but only for 2-3 weeks. We went through a very hard time and we ended it on bad terms. I was young (18 I think) and stupid, I didn't think you could find love at so young but I did and I fell hard for Martin as he did for me. Also, the time Martin left for Mexico, I felt like my heart shattered and just knew he wouldn't come back to me. Why would he come back to the U.S. just for me?! We only dated for a year or 2, I didn't feel very important and was so scared i'd never see him again. But he did come back and I just couldn't believe someone could love me this much. Now, about the time you and him seen each other in Mexico, Alejandra, you and I both know you didn't want to see him as 'friends'. He told me about the telephone calls, the time you tried to sleep with him and also the movies. Its not just you I blame, it takes 2, and Martin never spoke a word of you to me when we spoke, I did have days where I cried and was very insecure. I asked him a few times if he's seen you and he always told me no, but I do know all this, and to tell you the truth, it did piss me off but its in the past, we're all grown and I know this will never happen again. Martin and I have been through way too much for anything to tear us apart, the immigration process alone has been the hardest to get through. Please understand where I am coming from as a wife. I wouldn't necessarily call me jealous but in this situation, any wife would be concerned. Don't take this too personal. Take care of yourself.